We understand that losing a loved one is one of the most difficult experiences anyone can face. Bereavement affects people in different ways—emotionally, physically, and mentally—and there is no right or wrong way to grieve. You may feel shock, sadness, anger, guilt, or even relief, and these feelings can come and go in waves.
We are here to support you during this time. Whether you need practical guidance, emotional support, or someone to talk to, we can help you access the right services.
What to Do When Someone Dies
There are several steps to take following a death, which can feel overwhelming. Lincolnshire County Council provides a helpful guide covering:
- How to register a death
- Arranging a funeral
- Accessing bereavement benefits
- Finding emotional and practical support
Local Bereavement Services
Several organisations offer support across Lincolnshire:
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Lincolnshire Centre for Grief and Loss (LCGL) Offers counselling and support for individuals and families. 19 Carlton Mews, Lincoln LN2 4FJ 01522 546168 lcgl.org.uk
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Lincoln Trauma Centre Specialises in trauma and bereavement by suicide.📧 lincolntraumacentre@gmail.com 07812 661348 / 07443 634793 Involve Lincoln
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St Andrew’s Hospice – North East Lincolnshire Bereavement Support Service Offers free, confidential support for adults and children. standrewshospice.com
Support for Children and Young People
Grief can be especially difficult for children and teenagers. These organisations offer specialist support:
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Winston’s Wish National support for children who have lost a parent or sibling. 0808 802 0021
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Child Bereavement UK Helps families rebuild their lives after the death of a child or when a child is grieving.
National Resources
- Cruse Bereavement Support - Offers free, confidential support and counselling.
- The Good Grief Trust - Brings together bereavement services and peer support.
- NHS Bereavement Advice - Practical and emotional support from the NHS.
Practical Support
If your loved one died in hospital, the United Lincolnshire Hospitals NHS Trust provides a bereavement booklet with guidance on:
- What happens next
- Registering the death
- Chaplaincy and spiritual care
- Collecting belongings and certificates
Download the Bereavement Booklet here
Tell Us Once Service
Tell Us Once is a free government service that allows you to report a death to most government departments in one go, saving time and reducing stress.
Once the death is registered, the registrar will either:
- Complete the Tell Us Once service with you, or
- Provide a unique reference number so you can use the service online or by phone.
This service can notify:
- HM Revenue and Customs (HMRC)
- Department for Work and Pensions (DWP)
- Passport Office
- Driver and Vehicle Licensing Agency (DVLA)
- Local councils (Council Tax, Housing Benefit, Blue Badge, Electoral Register)
- Public sector pension schemes
